Realization is going beyond the pairs of Opposites,
Pleasure and Pain, Happiness and Sadness,sacred and the Sinfulness.
Nirvana or Moksham or Realization is attaining that where these pairs of Opposites do not affect us.
Things are what they are.
The SivaLinga
We can not change them.
As in day today Life, we can not change things, people or events, but we can change ourselves.
In our Daily life, changing ourselves denote changing into a Mode which is gives us pleasure , comfort.
Unfortunately, the feelings of Happiness or Sadness are also alien to our Nature, the Nature of the Soul.
From our mundane life, we know that what gives us pleasure at one point of Time gives us pain at another time.
Changing ourselves to suit our comfort,pleasure is not solving the problem.
What does one do?
